Saturday, December 31, 2011

Opportunity for local Artists (Hampton, Virginia)

Creativity and the Arts are not only our passion but part of our mission and company's culture here at Vivid Expressions LLC.  So we're always delighted to share our support of Artists and present unique opportunity in our local creative community.  We received word of this exhibition and work exchange opportunity for Visual Artist and simply had to share it.  If you or anyone you know can take advantage of this please share this information.


Attention Visual Artists (Painters, Photographers, Sculptors, etc.): 


The "Gallery at Chapman" in Hampton, Virginia is offering an immediate special exhibition opportunity. In exchange for one day a week manning the Gallery you may receive wall space or a lowered sales commission. Immediate need (starting next week) please contact them as soon as possible 757-826-1838 or galleryatthechapman@hotmail.com

Happy New Years! How to have "a good, good Twenty-Twelve"


It is the last day of 2011... so really, how was it for you?  We are so grateful for each of our fantastic Brides & Grooms, Clients, Colleagues, Friends, Fans and Followers.  I can't express what an honor it's been to share our work, accomplishments, thoughts, and creative spirit with you throughout the year.  


Of course it hasn't always been perfect... then again, that's the excitement and challenge of an intriguing life.  Every year has it's share of disappointments and loss but it also has opportunities, success, blessings, and oh so much to be thankful for especially if you really take the time to look and realize that no mater who you are there is always someone who will look at you and admire what you have.  We often look at what others have, what we desire, and take for granted the things that mean so much to us.  Sure, I'd love to have multi-million (or billion) dollar Clients calling all the time but I know I help to bring beauty, joy, wonder, fulfillment, magic, and highlight the most remarkable times in my Client's lives.  I take tremendous pride in our hard work and (not to sound immodest) do it stunningly well.


With that said it's time for our yearly list exercise.  Take out your notebooks (the paper kind) or some sheet of paper... yes, paper!  These exercises work best when written by hand.  Now, prepare yourself for a wonderful New Year by following these 5 steps:


1. Make your "Release List": 
This is a list of things you will NOT carry with you in the new year.  That baggage that has brought you loss, disappointment, and pain.  These are things you truly have (had) no control over and can not change.  Sure you may learn lessons from them; a mistake, bad decision, bad relationship, missed opportunity, etc.  Sit down and write a list of each thing that is weighing on you from this past year (and beyond) and be honest.  Even the things you say are "no big deal" but you feel guilt, fear, insecurity, hurt, or loss from. This pain has served it's purpose, take what ever lesson you can learn or good from the loss and become stronger from it but do not let it define who you are, who you can be, and your future.

2. Make your "Gratitude List"

This is the one that people should do but take for granted.  Set aside a good chunk of time to sit down and write a "Gratitude List".  Sometimes when people think of what they lost, what they don't or didn't have and all the "coulda, shouldas" of life they really become blind to what they do have.  For everyone who said, "Oh I wish I could have those cute new shoes" there is someone who is saying, "I wish I could afford new shoes", and someone else saying, "I wish I had shoes" and even someone with blisters on their feet or even lost their feel and legs.  Gratitude Lists are easy, take a least 2 to 3 sheets of paper and begin to write what you are thankful for but start simple, really simple and begin to list everything you are thankful to have and can do because of the life you have right now.  "I'm thankful I can breath under my own power". "I'm thankful I have a warm bed to sleep in".  "I'm thankful I can stand and feel the grass under my feet," (I learned that one when I broke both my ankles in an accident a few years ago).  "I'm thankful..." and so on. Move on to your true friends and loved ones, movie night with your sweetheart, time with Grandparents, and maybe those things like a job, insurance, car (although they may not be the latest and greatest) that are yours.  Soon you realized just how blessed you are.  


3. Make your "Decision List":
Ok, slight change.  Instead of Resolutions lets calls these Decisions...a "Decision" is just more empowering.      Besides, it's that what you are doing?  Resolutions also seem to focus on the end result - "loose weight, get a new house, take a trip to..." and so on.  Ok, but how are you going to do it?  Decisions focus on the tasks and steps you'll take to make to enhance your life and do the things you want to do.  Don't just make a Resolution to loose 30 lbs, Decide to cut out Fast Foods and cook more at home at least 5-6 days a week.  Decide to go for a walk with your friends (or even spend some peaceful "me time" walking) every morning.  Decide to skip that $8 Coffee Shop Latte & Muffin each day during the week and make your own for $8 a week (by the way that's $32 per week, $128 per month - savings you over $1,500 a year) for that cruse you want to take.  You have the ability to make these things happen, you just have to choose to do them.  The key is to keep them simple and inline with what you'd like to accomplish.  

4. Make your "Week One To Do" List:
This is just a way to get the ball rolling!  If you're not in the habit of writing and checking off "To Do" lists I highly recommend them.  It's certainly something you don't have to do all the time but for many professionals in a number of industry (events included) having a "To Do" list is vital to getting things done.  On another piece of paper (yes, another I'll share why a little later) write down the things you've "decided" to do this year.  Then select one of those goals you'd like to accomplish and make it the one for this week (or even this month) and create a detailed lists of tasks you will have to do to make it happen.  Research and reading, phone calls, shopping list, appointments... what ever you need to do put it on your "To Do" list. 

5. Send them on their way:This is my favorite part!  Unless it's actually being used on a daily basis lists and letters mean nothing and that is what most New Years Resolutions do... sit on a desk or posted on a refrigerator doing nothing.  They turn into just a sign laying away and soon you pay as much attention to it as picture on a wall... a little entertaining but easily missed.  So here's what you should do with each of these list:

  • Release List - Burn it!  Don't just throw it way or shred it but in a safe manner burn it.  There's something catharsis about watching that negativity and baggage go up in embers and smoke. 
  • Gratitude & Decision List - Mail it!  Please both lists into envelopes, stamp, and mail them to yourself.  When you receive it the next day put it up somewhere safe.  In about 3 to 6 months (when you need a little reminder, encouragement or a push) you'll open, read and revisit why you are grateful and what you're goals are.
  • You will keep the "2nd Decisions & To Do" List because you should be interacting with it (checking off items) on a daily (or weekly) basis.

Well, that's it!  I wish you all the hope, joy and happiness your heart desires in 2012.  I'm excited about all the wonder it will bring and know fantastic things await us all.  Yes, indeed... 


"I've gotta feel'n (wooo hooo), that twenty-twelves gonna be a good year...  twenty-twelves gonna be a good year...  twenty-twelves gonna be a good, good year."


Blessed wishes and cheers!!


Janel & Vivid Expressions

Saturday, December 24, 2011

Joy, Laughter, and Light of the Holiday Season

No mater what you are celebrating (Hanukkah, Christmas, etc.) I wanted to take a moment to wish you all (our lovely Readers, Followers, and Fans) joy, laughter, and light as we celebrate during this Holiday Season.  This year has been filled with such fantastic Clients, wonderful events, and exciting changes.  It's been a pleasure sharing it all with you.  I'm have to say, I'm utterly filled with so much creativity, hope and promise for a fantastic 2012... it's limited only be the imagination.


With all the hustle and bustle of shopping, wrapping, cooking, eating, drinking, visiting, and so on it's so easy to forget to stop and simply cherish the blessings of the family, friends, and loved ones around us.  Relax.  Take a breath and really take a moment of quite reflection.  Stop and appreciate those who touch your life and the lives you touch.  Be thankful to have shared this past year with   them and make sweet memory to treasure.


We will be taking some time to spend with our own family and friends over few days so we will be reducing our hours of operations until January 6th.  Oh, we will still be available on a limited basis and if you have questions, comments or need to reach out to us please do!  Feel free to visit our website and contact us online or via email - we'll be sure to get back with you as soon as possible.  


For now I'd like to leave you with a few "Unofficial Pics" from this past Friday's wedding - our last event of 2011 (We'll share Professional Images soon).  Here's sharing more memorable events and creative celebrations with you in 2012... Cheers and Happy Holidays!!




Bridal Bouquet: 
Classic style with subtle beach theme. Rose, Hydrangea, Orchids, and Lisianthus in hues of blue, purple, plum, silver, & white.



Custom Floral Design: 
It's wonderful when we can offer creative solutions. The Ring Barer for this wedding was a little girl so instead of a pillow we created a shadow box featuring elements of the wedding theme and floral design.






Friday, December 16, 2011

Creative Changes - our 2nd Location!

During our Holiday Open House & Toys for Tots Donation Event we shared some very special news with all who attended.  News about a distinct change to Vivid Expressions that is... well... more than a little exciting and should offer a wonderful experience for our Clients, Colleagues, Partners, and Friends.

As you many know Vivid Expressions has been happily designing and providing wedding & event services for over 5 years but only opened our doors at our Virginia Beach Studio-gallery for just over a year and a half.  We have shared space and partner with our dear Friends at Copper Art Inc. to showcase   both of our Artwork and Designs as well as host Client meetings and do production work.

As of January 2012 we will have a new location for Design & Consulting!  We will scale back our space at the Virginia Beach location which will continue to have a primarily focus on "wedding & event production work" and we will still offer creative ideas and sales of Copper Art Inc. wedding & event products for our Clients.  The Virginia Beach location is now known as the Vivid Expressions LLC Production Workshop and all of our Design, Consulting, and Creative Services meetings and operations will take place at our chic and artsy Norfolk location as we have become members of the 757 Creative Space Office Community.  Our new Design & Consulting Site is located at 259 Granby Street in Downtown Norfolk on the 2nd floor.   Check out some images of our new digs below:




 As we approach the end of our Wedding & Holiday Event season we will be operating under reduced hours from December 26 - 29th, with limited Consultations available on December 28th (by appointment only). We will be closed from Dec 30th - Jan 2nd.  Would you like to visit and chat about your up-coming wedding or event?  Call today to schedule your consultation at 757-802-3199 or Toll Free 888-878-4843).  In the meanwhile, we hope you enjoy all the love, laughter and joy of the Holidays... Cheers!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

Holiday Home Entertaining: Showcase Seasonal Scenes

Showcase Seasonal Scenes:

Oh, how we love this time of year.  Crisp cool air, warming smiles from friends and loved ones.  Best of all we welcome those who mean the most to us into our homes for celebration and sharing. 

This season is also known as the "Holiday of lights" and we looove candles. Well, I use any excuse to use candles but for the holidays it's a must.  Here's a quick home entertaining tip.  For your next home holiday party try nestling pillar candles in a bed of whole coffee beans, whole Cloves, whole Star Anise, broken cinnamon sticks, or any of your favorite other whole, dry spices. Light the candles and as they warm an your home will fill with the fragrance.  Cheers!!

Sunday, November 20, 2011

Annual Holiday Open House - 2011


On Tuesday, November 15th, 2011 Vivid Expressions LLC was delighted to host our 2nd Annual Holiday Open House.  We're so grateful for the "Creative Celebrations" we've been a part of over 5 year and this event has become our way to celebrate our Clients (past, present, and future), colleagues, friends, and fans.  All were welcome to come out, see original designs and artwork, mingle, eat, drink, laugh, and be marry.  

We also added a couple of "Special twists" this year - the first was adding a "little purpose to our party".  This year's event became a donation spot for the charity "Toys For Tots".  Guests could opt to bring a new, unwrapped toy to give to that charity and a U.S. Marine was on-site to collect the donations.  

We also had a "Special Announce" and guests of the event would be the first to hear some exciting news we had to share (but more on that later).  Today, I'm sharing some images from the Holiday Open House and Donation Event.  Ok, now I do have a disclaimer, some of these are from my own camera but the most lovely images capturing the event, decor and details are courtesy of our friends at ONON Digitography... enjoy!




      



































Special thank you to our wonderful Vendor Colleagues who help to make the night simply awesome: Copper Art Inc., DCGP Photography & Design, AFR Furniture, Cake Delights, Shockley Sweet Shoppe, Big Dreams Entertainment, Distinctive Event Rentals, MorLina Events, and Pike Media Resource.




Creative Projects

Few things are as fullfilling to an Artist than the opportunity to be given a single inspiration and then being let loose to create!  We were absolutely honored to be brought in as Event Stylist & Floral Designer for the recently creative project for "Orchestrated: Stylized Shoot".  This event, entitled "Ink & Pearl", presented us with an intriguing task - to create an exquisite decor and designs that reflected the opulent luxury of a "Chanel and Fine Art" theme inspired wedding, done in the neutral contrasts of black and white.  


Here are just a few "Unofficial" (ie: taken with my camera phone) pics along side one or two professional pictures captured by the exquisite eye of Bit of Ivory Photography.  We can't what to share more some professional pictures as they become available but for now enjoy... cheers!















(Oh, and I had to share this candid shoot of me on a ladder lighting dozens of tealight candles in our glass orbs against one of our black backdrops.)

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

"... and you do what?": Part IV What exactly is an EventDesigner

Well here it is, the last in the series, "... and you do what?"  We've looking into "the truth about Day of Coordinators", the difference between "Partial and Full-Service Planning Services" and now it's time to plunge into an old creative industry profession that's recent finding mainstream recognition - The Event Designer.

Yep, thanks to the array of Design Shows now on television and Celebrity Planners who also design like David Tutera, Colin Cowie, and Preston Bailey the idea of an Event Designer is becoming more and more popular but isn't Designer the same thing as a Planner?  Well, not quite.  The profession goes back much further and takes many other forms.

Walk into a mall (shopping center, City Center, Hotel, etc.) this time of year and you'll see an example of the Designer's origins.  Tall, sweeping displays have been designed and constructed.  Enormous storefront windows with elaborate details, props, and Holiday theme especially fabricated.  Back in the mid 80's and early 90's  major department stores like Bloomingdales, Macy's, etc. spent a tremendous amount of time and effort on breathtaking window displays.  These stores not only took pride in their eye-catching window displays, they turned into a huge competition... literally stopping traffic in metropolitan cities with crowds of on-lookers buzzing with chatter about the unique and innovative scenes.  This was just one of the design industries that created temporary, theme stylized environment.

These displays aren't the only example.  You can see my favorite examples of Designers in action when you go to the movies or pop in a blu-ray.  Think about this, what was the last fantastic, epic movie you saw?  I'm talking about a truly visually stunning film that transported you (and your imagination) somewhere new and inciting - somewhere you knew didn't exist today.  They captured landscapes, buildings, and scenes from another culture, time in history or a lush, enchanted world.  Perhaps you find yourself watching a story set in a chic, modern atmosphere or a scene of breathtaking glamour and luxury.  Or maybe they created an entire world - a fantasy world unlike any you've ever seen, a world that sweeps you away.  I've actually had a little experience in this.  I've worked in Animation/Film Production, The Arts (including Stage Production), Re-enacting/Entertainment, and Museum Industries - I've spent many years working with the creation of an experience that's designed to take you to another time and place.

So, who's the driving force behind making these scenes, experiences, or worlds a reality?   Who oversees concept design, scouting the location, and building of sets when such places just don't exist in real life?  Who will find or custom design props, wardrobe, details, accents, and so on?  In Movies they are call Art Directors.  In Stage Productions, Operas, and Concerts they are known as Artistic Directors.  And in the world of Special Events they are Event Designers.

Recently we've seen Designers (also called Architects and Stylists) being utilized for wedding, corporate, and social events because more than ever consumers have access to new options, technology, resources as well as a desire to make their event one-of-a-kind.  Designers develop every aspect of the visual design, scenery experience, and production on an event's look.  They also go beyond the "pretty things" such as table centerpieces and ceremony alter decoration, the Designer helps to create an entire environment not just the centerpiece.  Think of it this way, when you arrive home you don't walk into a sofa, you walk into a room with walls (that may or may not have paint or wallpaper), artwork on the walls, lighting fixtures, carpet or flooring, a coffee table and end-tables, lamps, plants, etc.  Everything has the potential to come together to create a lovely living environment and your sofa is just one large element of the room.  Designers don't just take your centerpiece into consideration but where it will rest, the type of table, the linens on the table, the decorative and purposeful accents like glassware on the table, the chairs surrounding the table, where the table will be in the room, the scale of the room, the lighting in the room, the structures in the room, and so on.

They also head elements like color theory, techniques and principles such as dimension, proportion, balance, line of sight, flow, staging, rigging, and more. With the vast array of resources, technology, and choices available to a Bride and Groom as well as a spirit of individuality (let's face it, no one wants their special day to look and feel like everyone else's) more and more couples are hiring Event Designers to manage not only the design and production of their wedding's look but manage the budget for the design.  Design work may include the design and/or production of Bridal Party's Flowers, Ceremony Flowers and Decor, Stationary, Table decorations (including favors, signage, Linens and Chairs), Focal Point Area Design (including Cake and Gift Table), Lighting Design, Rentals, and more.

So, when should you consider hiring an Event Designer or Stylist?

An Event Designer is right for you if:
  1. The look, decor and environments you want you (and your guests) to experience is an extremely important element of your wedding or event.
  2. You are overwhelmed with hundreds of ideas and images (from magazines, blogs, television shows, etc.) and you want the look to be cohesive, personal, stylish, and beautiful... not a messy cluster of homemade madness. 
  3. You have strong organizational skills or have hired a professional Planner for the organization and logistics but want a creative professional's skills, resources, manpower, and insight to insure beautiful results.

What an Event Designer Does:
  • Can typically spend up to 40 hours on pre-wedding/event service production work
  • May work in collaboration with a Planner or Coordinator as a Decor and Floral Design Vendor
  • Develops concise event design concepts and plans
  • May develop the Design, Floral and Decor Budget
  • May provide visual aids including sketches, floor plans, mock-ups, etc. to develop designs and layout
  • Provides (or sources) design events (including Flowers, Linens, Rentals, etc.)
  • May outsource and manage specialty services/products such as props, equipment and lighting
  • Conducts site visit for needs assessment including delivery, restrictions, and structural requirements
  • May manage on-site production, installation, and de-installation (including breakdown and removal) related to decor set-up
What an Event Designer Does not:
  • Does not necessarily act as Event Planner or Coordinator (although some offer Planning and Coordinating referrals or "add-on services")
  • Does not typically coordinate Non-Design Related Vendors (example: Officiant, Limousine Driver, etc.) unless otherwise offered
  • Is not responsible for the creation or implementation of the overall Event Timeline (just adherence to timely production of design responsibilities)

Bonus insight...


What's the cost?
Well, I'm sure after reading all of these posts regarding "who does what" you can see how important it is to hire a professional to take you through this long, detailed process.  You see how much time, money, and resources you'll gain by having a  "Day of" (month of) Coordinator, a Partial or Full-service Planner, or an Wedding/Event Designer on your team.  At this point for some of you the only question will which one is right for me?  While for others the question is how much?  Over the years when talking with Brides and Grooms I often find that once they start to discover how much a wedding actually costs they start to become overwhelmed and perhaps a little concerned.  Some look for places to cut back on or for things they think they can simply do themselves.  Then we chat or they read something like these posts and realize that they will not only actually save more time and money in the end but they will be guaranteed to have the expereince they dreamed of.  So, what's the cost?

Here's the "bottom line" on your wedding or event bottom line: 

  1. Depending on the region the typical wedding budget in the United States in 2011 is $26,000 (example: In Virginia the state average is currently $29,000)
  2. Depending on the range of services, experience, and education of the Wedding/Event Professional (Day of/Month of CoordinatorPartial/Full-service Planner, or Designer) you can expect to spend 10%, 15% or 20% of your total wedding costs on their services.
  3. This means a qualified wedding professional's services may start at approximately $2,000 (Note:   These Professionals and their teams may be spending anywhere from 20, 80, 200 hours or more of preparation work on your event)
  4. Just like any of your wedding/event vendors most Coordinators, Planners, and Designers will require a deposit or retainer and provide you with terms or arrangements for final payment(s).
Our advise for anyone concerned about the cost of hiring a professional... start early!  Give yourself enough time to not only book a Professional (and take advantage of their services and knowledge) but create a comfortable payment plan.   Have questions about selecting the right professionals for you?  Feel free to contact us!  Congratulations and blessed wishes!

Wednesday, October 5, 2011

"... and you do what?": Part III Partial vs Full-Service Planners

Now, in our last post, Part II "The Truth about Day of Coordination" (that's number 2 of our 4 part series) we talked a little about some of the popular misconceptions behind what a "Day of" Coordinator service offers and how to really determine if it's the right fit for you.  You've taken a good, long look at your daily schedule. You've flipped through your calendar for the next 9 (or 10, or 14) months.  You've gone over page after page of your Bridal Magazines, pictures, and notes.  Most importantly, you've really looked at what (besides marrying the one you love of course) means the most to you and after some soul searching you've come to a few realizations.  That...
  1. You just don't have a lot of free time - Thanks to your job, school or, well, life.
  2. You need a Pro's help with organizing and planning - You're just not that thrilled about the idea of juggling dozens and dozens (and dozens) of details.
  3. You want your wedding to be personalized and as unique as you are - Perhaps you've got unconventional ideas, a have unusual venue, or maybe even a destination wedding in mind.
  4. Your wedding date is rapidly approaching - You have soooo much to do and time is not your friend.
  5. You just don't want the drama - Not from the planning process or your family... It's your special day.  You'd rather relax, enjoy, and let someone else do the work.
In other words, you want more than what a "Day of" Coordinator can give you.

Ok, so you need more than "Day of" Coordination... what are some of your choices?  Most people automatically think of a Full-Service Planner.  You know, this is what Hollywood typically shows us when we say, "Wedding Planner".  One of my personal  favorites, for a good laugh, is Martin Shorts character from the 1991 film "Father of the Bride" but say the words here comes the take charge, whirl wind, over-the-top character you see in the movies or on TV.  A high-energy (sometimes high-strung), uber focused, multitasking woman (or man) usually accompanied by a poor little assistance scurrying behind them, taking notes and desperately trying to keep up as they blow through the scene.  Well, that makes for entertaining movie fun but the reality is just a little different.

The truth is Planners (Coordinators and so on) should never dominate "the scene" - the Bride and Groom are always the stars.  Pros usually think of that 1st consultation as not just a time to review portfolios, service packages and pricing - it's also a chance to get to know each other, discover their personalities and (for me personally) hear their love story.  Weddings are an emotional time and planning one is an intimate journey for a couple.  Most of us (as Wedding Professionals) recognize how special it is to be asked to become a part of their love story and we often bond on many levels.  That's why it's so important for a Bride and Groom to select a Professional that can not only "do the job" but can connect with them, after all, the Full-service Planning Process is a nearly year long relationship and you want them to be more than just Vendor.

In actuality the Full-service Planner is more like a Project Manager - a person that will report to you (the Bride and Groom) but will responsible for overseeing every last phase of the planning process and it's final execution.   These Professionals usually has at least one assistant (if not a team) to help execute either various steps from scheduling and attending the first vendor meeting to the managing the "Day of" to the "Day after".  After?  Yes, after.  These professional may see to follow-up tasks ranging from rental returns to executing the Farewell Brunch (the family brunch the next day prior to the Couple departing for their honeymoon).

Wooooh, I don't know if I need all of that.  If you'd like something a little more involved than a "Day of" Coordinator but less involved than a Full-Services Planner then another option is the "Partial Planning Service".  This type of service has become very popular over the years, especially with those who like the idea of being a "hands-on in their wedding planning but know they will need professional assistance to ensure their once-in-a-lifetime day will be as planned properly, looks polished, and feels fantastic.  With Partial Planning service Brides and Grooms receive limited guidance (often via meetings, emails, or phone calls) to keep you and planning on track but you will be doing the majority leg work like scheduling appointments, attending Vendor meetings, and Budget management yourself.  Think you'll need a little help planning out a seating chart or tracking RSVPs?  Some Planning Pros offer customized Partial Planning services that offer additional "a la carte" or hourly assistance for various phases in the wedding planning process.

 Partial Planner services may be a great way to get many of the benefits of a Full-service provider while saving a some money if you are well organized and willing to do the follow-up work.  Now, which type of planning service is the best fit for you?  Here are a few things to keep in mind about "Who offers what" when it comes to Partial Planning vs. Full-service Planning...

What "Partial Planners" will do:
  • Typically up to 80 hours of pre-wedding services
  • Provides advice and assist with developing ideas
  • Provides Preferred Vendors or suggested Vendor Referrals based on needs 
  • Usually furnishes custom Checklists and updates on regular basis to keep you on track 
  • Creates Event Timeline and Itineraries
  • May offer additional assistance on an hourly, a la carte, or custom package basis
What "Full-Service Planners" will do
(in addition to the above Partial Planning services, a Full-service Planner will also...)
  • Anywhere between 80 to 250 hours of pre-wedding services (depending on needs)
  • Assists in developing and managing budget
  • Assist in contract negotiations
  • Schedules and Attends Vendor meetings
  • Assist with Guest services including RSVP, Hotel Room Blocks, Seating Charts, etc.
  • Manages all Vendor Communications and Confirmations 
  • Manages Wedding Rehearsal
  • Manages the wedding day including all vendors logistics 
Some Full-service Planning Services also offer assistance with pre and post wedding day events such as Bridesmaids luncheon, Bridal Shower/Bachelorette Party, or Farewell Family Brunch.  Remember, all services vary form Planning Service Provider to Planning Service Provider so check with them to find out what they offer and if these services are offered if you are interested in them.

Be sure to check back for our next (and last) installment...  So, what exactly is an Event Designer

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

"... and you do what?": Part II - The Truth about "Day of" Coordination

Did you comment on our last post?  My earlier post, "...and you do what" Part I, was the introduction to this short four part series about Planning Profession's Titles, Roles and some of the misunderstanding (and confusion) that may come from different services.  Today I wanted to chat a little about the assumptions (and well, down right myths) about the term and title "Day of" Coordinator.  The general thought of many is, "I'm going to do all the planning myself so I just need a 'day of person', you know, someone for a few hours (maybe 2 or 3)... that's all."

And in theory that sounds good but let's take a few minutes and really think about what you are saying.   For 9, 12 maybe even 14 months (or more) you have read dozens of Websites and Blogs, poured over page after page of Wedding Magazines, pound the pavement at Bridal Shows - researching and compiling (probably in an elaborate binder full of) notes, pictures, print outs, clippings, swatches, brochures, flyers, business cards, calendars, check lists, contracts, receipts, and so on.  You have spent literally hundreds of hours after work, before work, during lunch breaks (and let's be honest probably during work), between school, friends, family/kids, and other personal responsibilities making calls, surfing the net, writing emails, scheduling appointments, completing projects and tackling the dozens of details in planning a wedding.  You've spent time trying to find just the right ideas and items to reflect you, your personalities, your likes and even dislikes.

From budget management to seating charts and RSVPs, you have worked hard to put together a vision for your wedding.  It's really hard to imagine someone (even a professional) who would swoop in for only 3 to 8 hours at the last minute and execute your plan with no prior preparation.   Perhaps we should think of it this way, you've spent months and months (and months) creating your personal wedding plan and vision... it's your baby.   You've spent 9 months (give or take) growing it from a few lovely ideas into what should be a fully developed plan and when the time comes to deliver it do you just show up at the hospital and expect someone to know all of your history, vision, wants, needs, preferences, anticipate your wishes in case something goes wrong (which is one of the primary reasons for having a Pro), etc.?  Most people would not feel comfortable with that.  They would like their own doctor or someone they feel knows them and how they would like things to go to take responsibility for the big moment.  More importantly, they would like someone who would review the process with them beforehand.  Double checking to make sure nothing was missed... that all the "t"s are crossed, all the "i"s are dotted and who will make sure they have all the information they will need to make everything is a success.

"But my venue already has a Coordinator, why should I hire someone else?" This is another thought that sounds good at first.  After all, we adore Venue Pros!  These Professionals work extremely hard to be a fantastic liaison between the Venue itself, the Bride & Groom and the Vendors.  In fact, our own policy this is their (the Venue's) "house" and we (as Vendors) are only visiting - we communicate with them to make sure that we leave their "home" as we found it.  And while most venues have some type of Coordinator on staff they are usually responsible for "Internal Coordination", that is, handling their business - coordinating their own facility, site set-up, maintenance issues and staffing requirements (including wait staff service if the venue is providing catering), and any specific vendor needs from the facility such as loading and storage requirements.  They are not necessarily responsible for coordinating all of the Vendors, managing the entire Wedding Party's itinerary, or solving issues... in other words "External Coordination".  Rentals delivered to the wrong location?  Limo running late?  Last minute change and the Florist isn't sure where to deliver the boutonnieres?  Photographer gets into an accident?  The Facilities Coordinator is usually not the one who takes the call.  They are not the one who works with the Vendors to keep everything moving seamlessly behind the scenes so the Bride and Groom aren't even aware of issues... but your "Day of Coordinator" (and their team) does.

The truth is some Professional Coordinators are no longer calling this service "Day of" and are referring to it as what it really is... "Month of" service.  Prior to the "day of" your Coordinator may have to putting in up to 25 hours of reviews, confirmations, scheduling, and other preparation work for the "Big Day".  Often we find a lot of gaps that the Bride & Groom were simply not aware of or may have missed.  These details may range from forgetting to address guest parking issues to (in one Bride's case) literally not having an Officiant booked days before the wedding.  Most Professionals find it simply irresponsible to Coordinate a wedding without some type of preliminary consulting, review, and prep work.  In other words, although it seems like most of the "work" a Coordinator does is primarily on the "day of" and the Bride is actually heading the pre-project conceptualizing and the "Day of  Coordinator" is verifying and refining the plan to ensure all the elements are in place and ready for their execution.

So, what does a "Day of Coordinator" do and is it what you actually need?

Although "Day of Coordinating" service may generally vary from Coordinator to Coordinator you would typically expect the following "Does & Don'ts" from a "Day of" Service Professional.

What a Day of Coordinator "Does":
  • Meets with Bride (Groom, Client) 4 to 6 weeks prior for Planning review
  • Typically provides up to 25 hours of Pre-wedding Planning 
  • Reviews Vendor Contracts and makes suggestion on missed services or details
  • Contacts and confirms service/product logistic plans with Vendors
  • Creates, presents and/or reviews Itineraries (and possible floor plans).
  • Final site walk-through (ceremony and reception site)
  • Typically (but not always) has at least one Assistant - depending on event size
  • Manages the rehearsal
  • Manages production of the wedding day

What a Day of Coordinator "Doesn't Do":
  • May not offer planning process advice and some may not provide Vendor referrals
  • May not provide assistance with managing the event budget
  • May not schedule or attend Vendors Meetings (including Tastings)
  • May not assist with special Guest Services (ex: Booking Accommodations)
  • May not assist with RSVPs or Seating Charts 
  • May not assist with pre-wedding event planning/coordinating (ie: Bridal Shower, Bridesmaid's Luncheon, Rehearsal Dinner) 
  • May not assist in post-wedding events (example: "Next Day" Family Brunch)
Up next, I'll be chatting about Partial vs Full-Services Planners

Saturday, September 24, 2011

"...and you do what?": Part I (of 4)


Planner, Coordinator, Designer, Consultant... it all means the same thing right? 

Not so fast.  So often when meeting with Brides and Grooms (or Event Hosts) who are just becoming acquainted with the events and weddings industry we(Wedding Pros) find ourselves clarifying a few misnomers about the roles, responsibilities and the generally "who does what"s in the planning and production process.  That's why I wanted to do this short (4 part) series entitled "...and you do what?".  In it, I'll clarify some of what certain Event Professionals (such as Planners, Coordinators, and Designers) do.

Before diving into our first installment I'd like to ask you a questions.  If a little kid asked you, "What does a Mechanic do?", would you feel comfortable describing the basics idea behind their job?  Now, most of you probably just answered, "Yes, of course".  And no surprise there, most adults have had to take a car to one (and for most of us probably more than once). We know what Mechanics and Repair People do because we see them somewhat regularly basis.  They are services that fit into and we use throughout our everyday personal and professional lives. 

We may not know each exact process, technique, training, tools, skills and so on involved in what they do but we do have an expectation of what will be done.  We have a general understand of what their job entails, trust them to know what they are doing and to do it correctly.  We do this so regularly in fact that we often just take what we know about their duties (such as which ones to go for which needs, who specializes in what, etc.) for granted.  The same can be said about other professions like Hair Stylists, Food Service, Clothing Boutiques, etc.  We run into these service providers hundreds of times in life.  And although these services are far, far more customized, elaborate, specialized, and usually complex for a wedding we still have some idea of what these Professionals will be doing. 

Ever been to a concert or a dance club before?  Then you have some idea of the type of services a DJ or a Band may provide.  Sure, it's more than just playing music, it's transitioning between activities, facilitating and communicating with your guests throughout the evening however, you also understand that it will be very different for a wedding environment and you will have to trust their expertise.  And if you've ever had a "Bad Picture" taken at the DMV, in a class picture, or in a candid photo with some friends then you know what a "Great Photographer" could do for you.  Again, you also know their services may require different equipment, assistants, and skills for capturing those "once in a lifetime" moments on camera.

So, maybe it's because large, structured events like weddings just don't happen every day.  For most people wedding planning requires working with professionals and processes they've seldom deal on a daily basis.  And with so many different professional titles like Wedding Planner, Consultant, Coordinator and Designer (all of which have slightly different responsibilities) there's often some misunderstandings about "who does what", who may provide the right service for the right needs, and confusion about their specific training, skills, duties, processes, techniques, etc.

Yes, most people may not run into Planning Professionals every day... or so you think.  I believe it's the various "titles" and the romanticized idea of Parties and Weddings that are misleading.  Say words "Wedding Planner" and images of glamorous parties, television shows, and funny little movie characters pop into most heads.  However say, "Project Manager" and you'd have quite a different image (more in the next post).  The truth is, these are two jobs that have similar duties and responsibilities but because of event industry terminology and the fact that weddings are (let's face it) such a fun occasion for the Client, the newly engaged may not see the similarities at first.

Next up we'll bust some myths, define the some roles, outline responsibilities, and help you start to identify which Event Pro may be the right fit for your needs when it comes to planning services starting with one of the most misunderstood... the "Day of Coordinator".

Oh, I'd like to leave you with a question...

"What do you think of when you think 'Day of Coordinator'?"

Feel free to leave your "Comments" below... cheers!

Friday, September 16, 2011

So, why do "Wedding Flowers" cost... so... much??

You walk into a local Florist's or Event Designer's shop.  You glace around and find yourself surrounded by selves and tables adorned with dozens of lovely vases, props and charming decorative accents.  Along one of the walls or perhaps nestled in the back of the room you may see a large display case... a cooler filled with an assortment of beautifully designed floral arrangements; sweet little round arrangements, classic red roses in 10" vase, happy little daisies in a fun, bright container, and so on.  And you wonder, "So why do 'wedding' (or special event) flowers cost so much?"  Unfortunately the common thought among consumers is that a business hears the word "wedding" and just automatically charge more... well, not exactly.  While it's true that arrangements for weddings are more than "Everyday flowers" (more on that later) I'd like to share just a little insight as to what makes flowers for weddings and special events more expensive. 

It's the same reason why you can go to one of your favorite restaurants, order a meal of Chicken Marsala with salad and drinks and pay anywhere from $20 to $30 per person (give or take) however, such a meal being catered for a reception could cost $50, $80 or more per person.

So, what ARE you really paying with Wedding and Event Flowers?

Let's consider that "dinner" we just talked about, better yet, think about that last time YOU cooked a big dinner for your family.  How many people did you cook for?  3, 4 or maybe 5 people?  Think about when you planned out the meal, looked up the recipes, and created ingredients and shopping lists.  Think of the preparation time (peeling, chopping, etc), and actual cooking and baking time.  Then, let's just assume you "go all out" and serve your family, you know, actually plate each meal and bring them to the table (no self-service).  Now think about the clean-up after, not just the dinner dishes but all the prep dishes, pots, pans, and work areas including counter tops and the floors.

Ok, now, image cooking for 14 people instead of 4 or 5.  How about 40, 140 or even 440 people...whew!  What would you need to pull that off?  How much extra help would you need to cook all those perfect meals as well as serve them impeccably and clean up afterwards?  What type of equipment would you need?  What if you were at a strange kitchen or a place that didn't have a kitchen?  What would you have to prepare before heading to the location?  How would you transport everything?  Think of the cost of not just the actual food but the materials (including warming trays, plates, glasses, linens, etc.), special equipment, extra staff, transportation, and, of course, your own precious hard work and time... what would be the cost?  The truth is things tend to become more complicated when done in large quantity and the more complicated things get, the more costly they become - especially if its to be done exceptionally well.

So, back to that Florist shop you walked into earlier.  Those flowers you saw in the cooler?  Those were more than likely "Everyday Flowers", the type of flowers you walk in off the street and pick-up on a whim.  Most standard florist shops will aways have some kind of Everyday, Seasonal or Occasion Flowers... you know, Mother's Day, Thanksgiving, etc on display. Seeing those flowers can be a little misleading.  You only saw one maybe two of a single "Everyday" Floral Design sitting in those cases.  Just keep in mind those arrangements may have been...
  • Made and sold in the shop one at a time
  • Made to order in the shop with available staff and blooms
  • Made to order in the shop with available staff and special ordered blooms
  • Made days (and days) ago and kept in a cooler for walk-in customers
These Everyday Flowers tend to be pretty standard designs and a little different than the specialty floral designs typically seen in weddings or special events which often uses different structural materials and event rental items.  When you are ordering custom-made Bridal Flowers, Ceremony Flowers (Alter Arrangements, Aisle or Pew Markers, etc), Cocktail/Reception Flowers, and more you are actually ordering and paying for more than just a standard product - you are hiring some very specialized services for your event. 

Here are just a few (5) reasons why a floral or event design business may charge what they do for Wedding or Event Flowers:

1. Product and Materials: 
Yes, this refers to the actual flowers but it also includes professional floral chemicals, tools, rented pieces, and production equipment (not including operations equipment like Flower Coolers).  Many of these materials are used in the flower care and processing stages (things I discussed in an earlier blog post "It's Alive").  I personally like to think of flowers as a "living Art medium" and the beauty can quickly fade if they become sick or mistreated.  And what happens if a supplier can't provide the right flowers, Customs damages them during import at the airport, they pick-up a fungus or they are delayed in transit to the Florist and die?  Your Floral Designer finds solutions, fixes the problem and fulfills service... plain and simple.

2. Mass Production and Labor:
Prepping flowers and making dozens of custom floral design such as bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, arrangements, etc. for a designated production schedule is very different from completing a single design order.  Many Floral Designers have professional training and/or years of experience so they can handle event production however, there may be situation where they have other projects, events, or operate a store front with daily walk-in customers and in such cases bringing in the proper staffing  may be essential for producing designs for your event.

3. Storage and Transportation:
After those exquisite flowers arrive, have been processed or have been placed into lovely floral designs they will need to be properly stored (typically in cool, control temperature environments) and then transported.  And in the case of weddings that may mean scheduling and delivery to multiple locations; bouquets brought to the Bride's and Bridesmaids' location, boutonnieres to the Groom's and Groomsmen's location, arrangements and aisle decor at the ceremony site and, of course, centerpieces and other decor to the reception site.

4. Installation:
Once delivered (depending on how elaborate) rentals and floral design items may need to be assembled on-site or set-up on alters, pews, hallways, guest tables, cake tables, etc.  Later the Floral Designer or their staff will work with the venue(s) to schedule their breakdown and removal.

5. Hobby vs. Job:
It's not lost on me that I (and others like me) are extremely blessed to love what we do and do what we love.  But I'll also be the first to tell you we are not here by accident.  Sure, I may have started off my career in Fine Art, Museums, Entertainment, Tourism, Communications, and Marketing but I fell in love with and have committed myself to this work.  We (Event & Floral Designers) have dedicated ourselves to hundreds of hours of study, training, and experience all to craft our skills, abilities and knowledge into an Art (no pun intended).  I value each and every one of our Clients. Their events are immensely important me and I fully understand what this (a moment they may never relive again) is to them.  It's that "scene of importance" that is why they have hired a Professional.  And yes, we are Professionals.  This is my job, a job I love but it is still my job.  It is how we have chosen to make a living - how we pay our mortgages, feed our children, pay our bills, and so on.  We work hard and, just like anyone who works, we expect to be paid for our time and hard work.

Now there are more reasons why Wedding Flowers may cost what they do but the bottom line is as Professionals we do indeed take your event (and what we do) very seriously and provide all the necessary elements required to create your designs with amazing "living materials".  I know the Clients who hire us value us - they value me, my staff, and the quality of the work we do.

Are you worried about your wedding flowers and decorations costs?  Be sure to ask your Wedding Planner, Consultant, Event Designer or Florist for their opinion on options to get the most out of your budget range.  They understand your budget is important and are there to help you.